How to make a symbol in Eagle Library
From CunningWiki
Generally I try to download libraries from CadSoft or Sparkfun
Cadsoft Eagle
Sparkfun Libraries
old site
http://www.opencircuits.com/SFE_Footprint_Library_Eagle
new site
https://github.com/sparkfun/SparkFun-Eagle-Library
Making From Scratch
If you must create a symbol this is a good tutorial